One thing we learned during our first RV trip—and continued to learn on all subsequent camping trips after—is that there are so many different types of camping experiences. Our first campsite in Big Sur was tucked amongst gigantic redwood trees. The sound of wind blowing through the leaves made us feel like we were completely isolated. We loved it. But the pendulum swings both ways. You can find campsites with panoramic coastal views, mere steps from the sand. Or you can find campsites that are five minutes away from major shopping centers and downtown nightlife.
The Big Sur trip also showed us how comfortable RV travel and camping can be. Our campsite had full hook-ups, so we were easily able to connect to both water and power. Those two things made our RV feel more like home. It gave us the freedom to flush the toilet, take (brief) showers and run our power outlets when needed.
Once parked and plugged in, all there was for us to do was just enjoy nature. We ate dinner outside. We enjoyed s’mores with friends around the campfire. We biked local trails in the morning and explored surrounding streams at sunset. My wife and I joke that camping is a bit of a “working vacation.” You have to cook most, if not all, meals. You have to pack and unpack the RV. And you have to deal with dirt—on your feet, on your clothes and inside the RV. But the time outdoors, without devices and without complaints, makes it all worth it. Tucking into our cozy RV at night brought us closer as a family, both figuratively and literally. And this is exactly what I realized I was missing—the pure intimacy of doing everything together.